Love, Sex & Monogamy. Is there a smart choice?

Are you in a committed, monogamous relationship? Would you like to be? Do you imagine it will be successful? Is it successful? I was pondering these questions, when I came across a polyamorist view of monogamy that resonated. The author proposes that, despite downsides and complications, polyamory represents a more natural expression of human sexuality, […]

True, sacred love begins here now. With you.

February is supposed to be the month of love, Valentine’s Day and all… Is it, though? Are you sat there feeling love? It’s great to have special occasions and special people to connect with and feel lovable and loving, but not many of us experience a stable, loving state as our norm — alone or […]

A love offering for all times (and for Valentine’s).

”Love, the supreme musician,  is always playing in our souls.” — Rumi I’m always one to talk about our souls. I’m also one to talk about our humanity. “If you can love someone with your whole heart, even one person, then there’s salvation in life. Even if you can’t get together with that person.” — […]

5 Communication Killers and How to Save Your Relationship

It doesn’t happen to me very often. Just as well, because few things cause me as high levels of pain and distress as communication failure does. We’re witnessing such strife and polarization globally. Systemic failures and the collapse of structures on just about every level. It’s never been more pressing than it is now to […]

Autumn Equinox: Balance, Blessings and Intentions

Surrendering to my night-owl tendencies, I wait till late at night to write that special Autumn Equinox message that has been brewing all day long. It truly is a special day. And night. Light and dark perfectly balanced. Harvest time. Are you dreading or celebrating this time of reaping what you’ve sown? If you’re experiencing […]